Would you feel like a follower instead of a leader?

Would you like to gain more control of your life?

Do people make many of your life decision for you?

Would you like to have pride and faith in your decision-making?

If your answer is `yes’ to many of these then read on..

You do not have to be leader of many to have a successful and fulfilling life, but you must at least be your own boss in life. A lot of people have a lot of advice or may even manipulate the decision you make. Often they believe i t is in your best interest. Sometimes it is to benefit them.

Usually when someone tries to influence a decision of your, they take the stance of the decision which would benefit them if they were in your position. However they are not you! Something which may right for them is not necessarily right for you. It is always worth listening to the advice to the advice of others as you can get some good solutions to use. Therefore, you should always make the decision yourself, especially if there are manipulators in your life. Do you think that innovators such as Edison, Einstein,

Da Vinci, or Mozart blindly followed others advice??

Many of us were conditioned in early life to surrender our power. Our parents, family, teachers, or society often taught us to be followers rather than leaders??

Do any of these rule look familiar??

Be quiet

Don’t get too big for your boots

Be seen and not heard

Think of others before you think of yourself

Be happy with what you have got

Don’t show off

Do as you are told

Don’t be know it all

Don’t get too excited

Be modest

Do not answer back

These types of suggestion are typically bombarded into the brains of children for many years on daily basis. Whilst the intention is usually constructive, they do not help in later life. They can leave some of us becoming dependent upon someone else’s opinion to lead us. Most people, for example, are too afraid to quit their job and set their own wing. What use to the world of a shrinking violet?? Does the world really admire these types of people?? Do you admire this people??

Let go of these limiting suggestion of the past and embrace these new more positive way of being.

Instead of these limiting viewpoints, how about adopting these instead:

Be ambitious

Don’t be modest

Think big

Be noticed

Be enthusiastic about your idea

Be proud of yourself

Have confidence in your ability

Be brave

Do not apologize if you have done nothing wrong

Let go of these limiting suggestion of the past and embrace these new more positive way of being.

There is a great person in each every one of us. It can be unlocked by simply believing in ourselves, and having the courage to follow our idea…